Cerita Kehidupan

(entry ni mungkin panjang, kalau rajin baca le...tak rajin, xyah susah2...hehehehe)

Last night I had dinner with my dear friend. Her whole family is our family's friend. Her mum is my mum's BFF. Her dad died last year of cancer. Her only brother(she's the eldest of five siblings) died of hit-and-run just few metres away from home, just 2 months after her father. Sedih kan?? Yes, devastating I would say. But she coped well, and during the mourning of her lost, she received a great news. She is pregnant. Some joy to the whole family.

Soon after her delivery (she has a cute daughter), her husband been transfered to Miri. And being quite a wealthy family, she decided to be SAHM and followed hubby to Miri.

And last night we had girly talk over dinner. I thought she been in KL because of the CNY extended weekend holiday. But she's been back since early January. I asked, why didn't she call me up. And she replied, she's miserable, can't think of anything. And there, I realize, she does look a bit miserable, not her usual self.

She's totally opposite of me. She very outgoing, very outspoken. She's a president for a few clubs back in her university in Perth. She managed a few multi million dollar projects under her father's company. She's very passionate when doing something especially while helping her mum in charity works. She's a Mercy member.

But last night, she's none of it. She's just plain woman in distress. After sometime, she opened up. With a cry. It turn out, she is in the process of a divorce. I was stunned!! It never occured in my life I would face somebody close to me is breaking up a marriage. She said her hubby is two timing her, and confessed he's been seeing someone. MAN!!

Bukan niat nak cerita hal buruk tentang orang, sekadar berkongsi supaya dapat jadikan teladan. At least for myself. Sometimes we take things for granted, we assume our husbands will never cheat on us, or vice versa. BUT we must not also assume they cheat on us, kan? Come to think of it, memang patut kursus kahwin diadakan. Dulu asyik gelak-gelak masa penceramah bagi kursus, sekarang bila ingat balik, memang menjadi panduan. Nasib baik simpan lagi buku kursus. hehehehe

Alhamdulillah, mine sudah baru three yrs, and I pray each and everyday our marriage will always kekal bahagia hingga hujung nyawa. Amin

Our dinner ended around 1030pm, and when I drove back, I can't help but cry. Life is not always a bed of roses, its a cycle. Sometimes you are up there, looking down happily, but remember, you can be down and weeping.

renung-renungkan, dan selamat beramal.. ;)